Prepare Your Child for a Smooth Back to School Experience!

Prepare Your Child for a Smooth Back to School Experience!

As a new school year is about to commence, it can be helpful for the whole family to get back into the swing of things ahead of time. Going back to school can be an exciting, enjoyable time if we are all ready for go time. Don’t forget to make room for fun in the process. Here are some valuable tips for you and your family!

Get them back into their bedtime routine

Sometimes over the summer, we allow our kids to stay up a little later. Now, is the time to start easing back into going to sleep a little earlier as the school year approaches. If your kiddos have been a little more “plugged-in” this summer, help them to start unplugging earlier and more often. Get them in the habit of reading as they wind-down, especially before bed as a part of a calming bedtime routine. It can even be beneficial for parents to try to catch some extra zzz’s, so the entire family is more rested and in a happier, healthier headspace.

Dialogue with your kids about going back to school
What are their thoughts and feelings about starting a new school year, new classes, new teachers, making new friends, and rekindling last year’s friendships. Do they have any fears or concerns that you can help them work through? You may be able to aid your kids in opening up and processing their feelings by reading through some age-appropriate books on going back to school, making friends, navigating bullies, etc. Here are a few fabulous books that can be great resources for you to read with your children: “The Night Before Kindergarten” by Natasha Wing and Julie Durrell, “Curious George’s First Day of School” by H.A. Rey, “First Day Jitters” by Julie Danneberg, “If You Take a Mouse to School” by Laura Numeroff,” “Daniel Goes to School (Daniel Tiger)” by Becky Friedman, “A Smart Girl’s Guide: Drama, Rumors and Secrets (American Girl)” by Nancy Holyoke, and “Llama Llama and the Bully Goat” by Anna Dewdney. Depending on their age, they can also express these feelings or concerns by drawing a picture depicting various scenarios they have or may encounter, or by writing a short story about it.

Get yourself ready
Going back to school will be a smoother process for your entire family, if we are also prepared and ready. Try to connect with your child’s teacher to make sure your child has everything they need to start off on the right foot—school supplies, forms filled-out and turned in, shot records up to date, etc. If possible, it can also be helpful for parents to have a few hours for themselves for some much needed self-care before school starts. Parents are often able to be there own personal best, when they take a little time to reset.

Help get them excited for a new beginning
Everybody can benefit from a fresh start! Remind them about all the positive things that they love about learning and discovering, their friends, new teachers, etc. It may also get your kids pumped about returning to school if they get to go shopping with a parent to help pick-out a new back-pack, lunch box, binder, school clothes, etc. Sometimes, it’s easier to run to the store and grab these items ourselves, but if your child gets to be a part of this process, it can really get them eager to return to the classroom!

Rekindling last years friendships
It’s always comforting to go back to school with a buddy. If your child will be going back to school with a good friend who they haven’t seen over the summer, you may want to set-up a playdate to help them rekindle their friendship. If your child is going to a new school and will be making all new friends, you can try to get them connected with new children once the school year starts. Reading books such as the ones mentioned above can give your children practical tips on how to make new friends. You can also encourage your child to be a good friend themselves by reaching out to others who seem to need a friend too.

Connecting with new teachers
If possible, meet your child’s new teacher and help to make sure they connect with your child from the get-go. Make sure you are on the same page with their teacher, and keep in touch with them throughout the school year, so you’re sure your child is on track and able to take advantage of any specific resources that your child may need. Volunteer to help-out in the classroom or attend a school field-trip. You can be your child’s most influential advocate at school. You’ve got this parents!!
Los Angeles Nanny Sick Leave Policies

Los Angeles Nanny Sick Leave Policies

We are so grateful for our team at HomePay! They are a wonderful resource for families to partner with in order to comply with California laws. Families are required to provide their employees with paid sick leave in California. While there are minimum requirements that must be met, the city of Los Angeles has sick leave laws that slightly alter state laws. There is some flexibility with how families can manage sick time. Here are the options! 

Option A: Designated Sick Leave Policy – Upfront Method 

This option gives your nanny access to all paid sick hours at the start of each year. Los Angeles law requires 48 hours of paid sick leave per year and any unused sick time is required to be carried over to the next year. 

Pro: Sick time is available for your employee to use should they become sick early in the employment relationship. This ensures they will not come to work while ill. Unused sick time does not need to be paid out at termination. There is also a usage cap of 48 hours used annually. 

Con: Since sick time is provided upfront, it could be used before it’s technically been earned. Carryover of unused hours is required from year-to-year. 

Option B: Designated Sick Leave Policy – Accrual Method 

This option allows your employee to earn, or “accrue,” paid sick leave at 1 hour for every 30 hours worked. Up to 48 hours of paid sick leave can be accrued per year. 

Pro: Your employee “earns” sick time as the employment relationship grows. You may cap annual usage to 48 hours. Unused sick time does not need to be paid out at termination. 

Con: Should your employee become sick prior to accruing enough hours, they may come to work ill. Carryover of unused hours is required from year-to-year. 

Option C: General Paid Time Off 

This option gives your employee a general amount of paid time off (PTO) that meets or exceeds Los Angeles’s sick leave requirements. This method works well for families planning to offer more PTO than the minimums listed above. Families may choose between the Upfront Method or Accrual Method. Unused Paid Time Off is required to be paid out at termination, while the unused sick leave is not. 

Pro: This method works well if you are planning to offer paid time off in addition to the state and city-wide sick time requirements. This gives your employee the option to use their time off wisely. 

Con: Any unused PTO needs to be paid out at termination.

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Respectful Child Care: Putting Practices Into Play

Respectful Child Care: Putting Practices Into Play

By: Jenna Somich, Movement Specialist, BIRTHFIT Coach, RIE Foundations Student

When it comes to child care practices and philosophies, there is a lot out there. Many times following particular principles can feel overwhelming. Today, I would like to explore Respectful Child Care practices and discuss a few ways that you can put them into action.

Respectful Child Care is based on the idea that each child is born a complete, whole, and aware human, who is deserving of not only love, but also trust and respect. We seek to demonstrate our respect for each individual child with every interaction. Also, we acknowledge that each individual child is intelligent and knows himself or herself better than anyone else – including us! We learn about the child through sensitive observation and communication. It is a deep and intimate partnership that is ever growing! So where do we begin?

Provided below are some ways to put Respectful Child Care into action:

Respecting the Body:

  • Slow Down: Then, slow down even more! Before you complete a caregiving activity, first ask the child if they are ready for that said task. Let the child know what you plan to do before you do it. Welcome their feedback regarding tasks, but remain firm in completing necessary caregiving activities in a calm and engaging manner. This allows the child to be an active participant in their care and sets the stage for independence in the future.

Example: “I see that your diaper needs a change. May we change it? I see that you are playing, but I would like to change your diaper now. I am going to pick you up.”

  • Words Matter: Always use correct language and terminology for the body. Using correct and precise language leads to body awareness and sets the stage for autonomy, healthy boundaries, and consent.

Example: “I am going to take off your old diaper. Now, I will wipe your butt with this wipe (show the child). It may be cool. Are you ready? Let’s put a fresh diaper on you. Can you pick up your legs? Thank you for helping!”

  • Movement Ownership: Remain mindful of innate movement development and cognitive development. Trust that each child is unique and will develop at their own pace and at their own time. Offer free movement opportunities on the floor or outside. When children are able to move freely and are not “taught” how to move, they move with grace, quality, and self-confidence!

Something to note: Placing children in a seated or standing position before they can achieve it on their own trains compensatory movement patterns, versus functional movement patterns. This would include holding them in that position or using equipment such as a bumbo seat, exersaucer, or walker. If you would like to learn more about this, I recommend the following article: On Their Own: How To Stop Interfering With Your Child’s Development

Respecting the Mind:

  • Communicate Authentically: I touched on this a bit above, but I wanted to expand further. With Respectful Child Care, we believe that words are words and language is language. We don’t speak differently to newborns, infants, or toddlers. Also, we acknowledge that children deserve the truth. If we consider each child to be a whole human, our language and communication ought to demonstrate this as well. Using authentic language and honesty not only exposes children to a larger, more diverse vocabulary, it also feels freeing as the caregiver.

Example: “I can tell that you would like to pull my hair. I do not like how that feels. Can you please open your hand? It seems that you are having a hard time with this. I am going to help you open your hand. I am not going to let you pull my hair.”

  • Observe and Trust: Allow the children to guide their own play. Children are born learners. When we allow them to self-initiate play, we will see that they are actually much more engaged in their activities. This builds intrinsic motivation. Support their passions and interests without projecting your wishes, wants, or fears on them.

Example: “I see that you are climbing the bench! I am going to stay close while you explore. You did it!”

  • Consider Your Own Lenses: Remain mindful of the lenses that we bring into each situation and acknowledge that our personal experiences do not equal universal truths for all. A great tool that parents and caregivers can utilize to avoid placing their thoughts and experiences on children is “sensitive observation” and “sportscasting.”

Example: “I see that you would like the toy that your friend has. It seems that they are still playing with it and would like to play alone. Perhaps you could find another toy.”

Respecting the Spirit:

  • Children Have A Voice: All humans deserve to be heard. Age does not inform this right. Openly invite, encourage, and acknowledge all feelings. Ask for clarification if you are unsure of how the child is feeling. Acknowledge when you are feeling unsure and let them know that you will do your best to support them. The key here is that support doesn’t mean “fix.” If we wish for our children to come to us with big challenges later in life, we must show them that their emotions and struggles are welcome, even at a young age and even if it feels like a small challenge to us. It is not small to them. Trust that they are doing their best with the tools they have and the stage of development that they are in.

Example: “I see that you are having a tough time with this. It seems you are very frustrated. I am not sure how to support you best, but I am here with you. What do you feel may help?”

  • Learning Love Through Boundaries: Recognize your own boundaries so that you can help support your children in developing theirs. Children learn self-love and self-care by seeing it modeled to them throughout their lives via their parents and caregivers. Having healthy boundaries for yourself and those in your life teaches children that this is to be expected and honored.

Example: “I am having a tough time right now. I need a break. I am going to sit and be quiet and take 10 deep breaths.”

  • Choose Empathy and Kindness: Openly and honestly say,  “I am sorry” to children. This opens the door for our children to say “I am sorry” to others and understand that being “right” is not as important as showing up with empathy and kindness.

Example: “It seems that when I raised my voice that I really caught you off guard. I can’t imagine what that felt like for you. I am so sorry. Are you OK?”

In essence, Respectful Child Care practices are truly about adhering to the golden rule: treat all people, regardless of age, how you may wish to be treated. In many ways, you are not just parenting the children in your care, you are also parenting or re-parenting yourself and perhaps being that role model that you needed when you were young. It is not always an easy task and sometimes requires a leap of faith, but I believe it can change our world!

Here are some of my favorite resources on Respectful Childcare:


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Preventing Childhood Food Allergies: An Allergist-Mom’s Guide

Preventing Childhood Food Allergies: An Allergist-Mom’s Guide

Have you heard the theory, “No peanuts before the age of one!” New studies are showing that is not the case any longer. We had the opportunity to meet Dr. Katie Marks-Cogan and speak with her about food allergies in children. What a privilege this was and we learned so much about the company Ready, Set, Food! Please read what Dr. Marks-Cogan has to say about her experience with food allergies.

As a board-certified allergist, I’ve seen firsthand how families struggle with food allergies. Fortunately, recent landmark studies have shown that you can reduce your baby’s risk of developing common food allergies by feeding them allergenic foods early and consistently, starting between 4-11 months of age. But introducing babies to allergens can be challenging because many 4-11-month-olds are picky eaters. In fact, many infants aren’t developmentally ready for solid foods as early as 4 months of age.

To help make early allergen introduction easier for busy families, I’ve compiled 6 tips for food allergy prevention, based on findings from the recent studies.

  1. All Babies Can Benefit From Allergen Introduction

Food allergies are on the rise, with 1 in 10 suffering from a food allergy today. But over half of children with food allergies have no family history. That’s why early, sustained allergen introduction is recommended for all babies, regardless of family history. (If your baby has severe eczema, consult your pediatrician before feeding your baby allergenic foods, to determine if an allergy screening is required first).

  1. Start Early, Between 4-11 Months

Scientists believe that between 4-11 months of age, babies’ immune systems develop either a positive or negative response to food proteins. Consistently introducing allergenic foods during this critical window promotes a positive immune response to these foods, and helps reduce your baby’s risk for developing a food allergy. But delaying this allergen introduction may put your child at a greater risk for developing a food allergy, according to studies. So, start introducing allergens early, between 4-11 months of age.

  1. Make Sure Baby Is Healthy

When you’re ready to introduce allergens, choose a time when your baby is healthy. Also, make sure that an adult can closely monitor your baby for at least 2 hours, to watch for any signs of a reaction.

  1. Consistently Feed Your Baby Allergenic Foods

Feeding your baby allergenic foods only once or twice is not enough to help reduce their risk of developing a food allergy. Instead, your baby needs consistent exposure for their immune system to develop a positive response to these foods. In the landmark studies, infants consumed allergenic foods 2-7 times a week for 3-6+ months. (In fact, in the LEAP study, babies were exposed to allergens for 4 years.) Thus, make sure to feed your baby allergenic foods multiple times a week, for several months.

  1. Breastfeeding Alone Is Not Enough

Breastfeeding provides a wealth of benefits for your baby, but breastfeeding alone has not been conclusively proven to prevent food allergies. If you choose to breastfeed, you will also need to feed your baby allergenic foods early and often, to help reduce your baby’s risk of developing food allergies by up to 80%.

  1. Don’t Give Up!

As a mom, I know firsthand how challenging early, sustained allergen introduction can be. When my son David was 5 months old, I prepared an egg, peanut, and yogurt snacks for him to eat several times per week (peanut, egg, and milk comprise over 80% of all childhood food allergies). Unfortunately, this process was time-consuming and frustrating. Most of what I offered ended up either on my kitchen floor or on David’s bib. This difficult experience inspired me to find a solution that would make early and sustained allergen introduction easier for all families.

I worked with a team of physicians, leading allergy experts, and parents to create Ready, Set, Food!, an innovative system that can help reduce your baby’s risk of developing a food allergy by up to 80%.

Our gentle, guided system:

  • Follows the precise dosing used in landmark food allergy prevention studies. This eliminates the stress of guessing and preparing the right amounts of allergens for your baby.
  • Starts with a low dose to maximize safety, and then increases over time to a higher dose to maximize effectiveness.
  • Introduces one new food at a time, based on pediatric guidelines.
  • Dissolves into breastmilk, formula, or your baby’s favorite puree, making allergen introduction easy, even if your baby isn’t yet ready for solid foods.
  • Contains only organic, non-GMO peanut, egg, and milk – no added sugar or artificial additives.
  • Can help reduce the risk of developing peanut, egg, and milk allergies by up to 80%.
  • Is recommended by 200+ pediatricians and allergists.

We’ve partnered with Educated Nannies to make allergen introduction even easier! Use the code EDUCATEDNANNIES20 to receive $20 off any Ready, Set, Food! subscription.

To learn more about Ready, Set, Food!, and to take advantage of this exclusive offer for the Educated Nannies community, visit their website here.

About Katie Marks-Cogan, M.D.: Dr. Marks-Cogan is board certified in Allergy/Immunology and Internal Medicine, and treats both pediatric and adult patients. Originally from Cleveland, Ohio, she received her M.D. with honors from the University of Maryland School of Medicine. She then completed her residency in Internal Medicine at Northwestern and a fellowship in Allergy/Immunology at the prestigious University of Pennsylvania and Children’s Hospital of Pennsylvania (CHOP). After finishing training, she moved to Southern California and currently works in private practice. She is Chief Allergist for Ready, Set, Food! She currently resides in Los Angeles with her husband, 3 year old son, and 8 month old daughter where she enjoys hiking, building LEGO castles with her son, and cooking with her family.

Is Motherhood Killing Your Sleep? How to thrive during Momsomnia!

Is Motherhood Killing Your Sleep? How to thrive during Momsomnia!

As a mom, horrible sleep is part of the job description. Whether it is nighttime breastfeeding, pregnancy discomfort, a kid with a nightmare, waking up in a cold sweat thinking of all the things you need to accomplish tomorrow, waiting up for your teenager to get home…there is a lot of disrupted sleep and a lot of tossing and turning. I call this Momsomnia. 

Some of your momsomnia is biological. Women have evolved to be lighter sleepers. This makes sense. Women already sleep worse than men, but motherhood adds another layer to this. Sorry ladies, it gets even worse with age.


So, what do you do with yourself when you are tossing and turning at 3am? 

Bottom line is you have some nighttime hours to kill and they could be spent doing something better than scrolling social media. Turning your momsomnia into a win-win makes is much better for your health in the long run and might make these tough years more bearable.

Here are 6 ways you can nighttime self-care. Some of them take pre-planning but, Mama, you have a little “me time” on your hands. That’s precious commodity in mommyland, so don’t waste it…

  1. Meditate: Have an meditation app pulled up on your phone and ready to go. If you struggle to find quiet time to meditate during the day, this is perfect for you.  You might fall back asleep or might gain a little zen. Either way, you win.
  2. Read a book. Don’t turn on your phone. Screen time stimulates your brain to wakefulness. Pick something inspirational or life-giving that will feed your soul.
  3. Get some creative work done.(Heck, when do you think I write these blogs?) The middle of the night can be a great time for creativity.
  4. Journal: This is particularly great for calming those racing thoughts that keep you up.
  5. Do work you would have done tomorrow. Instead of stressing about the work you’ll be too tired for tomorrow, take a quick moment to reorganize your schedule. If you are awake and alert now, do the work and schedule a midmorning nap tomorrow.
  6. Yoga: Some poses are designed for bringing peace and calm.

Self-care as a mom takes a lot of flexibility and creativity. Your schedule is going to be out of whack. What worked for you before children might not work now, and you can’t control your schedule as well as you could before. Turning these stressful moments into wins will help you not just survive motherhood, but thrive.

Author: Dr. Charlynn Ruan, clinical psychologist and founder of Thrive Psychology Group for women.


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